Appearance or Personality?

I been asking by this question before..

"Which is more important to you? Appearance or personality? Why?"

A girl that has a good personality will be truly attractive for me. We can’t really know the girls by only look on their appearance. Guys like to see pretty girl is a reality. But, it doesn’t mean that guy will choose that girl to be their life partner. We need to know that appearance is only a moment and it won’t be forever. A girl that comprise of honest, caring, a good sense of humor, willing to live in the present and not in the past would be more welcome by guys. All of this is more important rather than appearance. Like example, if the girl is an honest person, you can easily build a romantic relationship that is built on the solid foundation of trust and not fakes. The key to being happy in life is to be able to life at yourself and your partner. But I didn’t mean a girl that got a good appearance won’t have a good personality. It is depends. If I really have choice to choose, I will definitely choose a girl who is good in personality and also appearance.

我的人生

今天快乐吗？活的还愉快吗？是否被周围的环境，人，事物影响呢？

每早你是以怎样的一颗心来迎接新的一天呢？感谢神让你还有生命气息？还是一早起身就唉声叹气。这都将会影响你一整天的心情。没有好心情，怎么能专心把事情做好呢？

情绪管理，也就所谓的EQ很重要。EQ差，再高的IQ也没用。情
绪管理的不好，真的会令你一事无成。我都曾经历过。曾经我也是一个脾气很暴躁，闹情绪的人，也没什么耐心，也是一个不愿意服输的人。特别要谢谢王师母从台湾寄给我的一本书，“活出美好”。那本书她送给我大约半年后我才开始读。有些恨晚。这本书让我明白，改变了很多。从中学习到，我们只有除去老我，才能够进步。 可以说，这一切都是上帝的安排。在我最需要的时候，他帮助了我。神永远都不会将过于你可解决的困难或问题临到你身上。
还记得，在我还在 form 4 那一年。我因为不满意父母亲对某些感情事情而闹情绪。不顾自己的安全。有一次因顽皮而从一个高度摔下。当时，就已经觉得接近屁股那里的脊锤骨不对劲。有刺痛的感觉。当时脸皮厚的我一下子就站起来了。回到家也只是跟爸爸提起摔倒的事。当时我们都觉得揉一揉，擦一擦就没事了。第二天，当要起床去上课的时候，就觉得下半身无力，只要我出一点力想转身，受伤的地方就很痛。在学校，只是想从座位站起来，都觉得很困难。都要用手力将身体提起。直到放学坐进车里时才对妈妈说我的背很痛。到那时，

我才知道妈妈还不知道我摔倒的事。当天下午妈妈就带我去照了x-ray..在医生还没对我说我的情况之前，我的脑海里想的是希望严重一点。也许有些事情会不一样。当时我的想法是多么的愚蠢啊。。最后，医生告诉我说，如果在这段时间我不好好的休息及照顾的话，我可能下半辈子就要在轮椅上度过。当时从照片中很明显的可以看到我脊锤骨受伤的地方很突出，走位了。当时的我却不把它当成一回事。也就好几个月不能做任何运动。一出力就会痛。过了几天，妈妈带着我前往kuching较好的医院再做检查。希望有更好的恢复方法。当医生放上我之前拍的那张照片时，那一个走位，突出的脊锤骨已不怎么明显。和之前看的很不一样。这到底是怎么一回事？？

---是神的怜悯，神的照顾，神的医治。在那之前，周围的朋友，亲戚

都为我祷告。真的很感恩。现在的我还能跑，还能跳，不需要坐在轮椅上。只是不能像受伤前那样提重的东西。偶尔还是要去做脊锤骨调整及针灸。为什么会发生这种事情？这都是因为闹情绪，没有管理好EQ而导致。

快乐，成功的生活掌握在我们自己。我们往往会被四周围的情况而改变。为何我们不尝试去改变它而不受它们影响呢？---所以，以快乐的心情来迎接每一天吧 ^.^

TIME.. is never stop

I think everyone would have the same feeling as mine..

When I still in childhood, time always cannot catch up with me. It just like a snail crawling behind. So I wait and wait...
But..

Time begins to take seriously with us through we growing up gradually and now it's start difficult to differentiate between the two although we st

ruggle with it. A few years in the future, TIME finally take the lead. Even though a lot of effort I have made, the time is still keep going on and never turn back and wait for me. Until now, it is still at the leading position.

I'm 20 years old (09Aug87) already. How long and how far my parents and I can live for? Nobody knowa. So better show your filial obedience start from today if you didn't do it from ago. Anyway, just try your best in all direction at

the present, trusting God and He may lead your way in the future.

A letter for my Mum & Dad

Start with a story..

One day, God say to a baby.. "It's time for me to send you to my wonderful creation, Earth.. The scene there is really beautiful and great.. You will enjoy yourself there.."

But the baby replied, "I want to stay in Heaven and stay with you.. I don't want to go to Earth.. I will be very lonely and helpless if I go there.." God say to the baby again, "Dun worry my son, I will arrange an angel for you.. The Angel will play with you and accompany you.. The Angel will go through all the difficulties with you.."

The baby still feel worry and anxious.. He keeps asking God a lot of questions.. "But I don't know how to talk in human language.." God replied, "Dun worry, the Angel will teach you how.." The baby asked again, "I will miss you if I go there and how I can connect with you?" God answered, "In the Earth got various of phone.. If you want to connect with me, your Angel will teach you how.. By praying, I can hear your voice and I will reply you.."

"So now do you still have any question you want to ask?" The baby said no.. God asked the baby again.. "Are you sure no more question?" The baby think for a while and ask the last question.. "Can I know the Angel name that you have arrange for me? so that I know who is it.." God smile and answered the baby question, "The Angel is call "Mother"..

Mum (Janet Ngu Ngouk Yien), I really appreciate God to arrange you as my Angel.. Thanks for didn't abandon me as I always make you headache and experience high levels of anxiety.. Under your care, I never lack of anything.. You and Dad (Tang Siong Ngie) always give me the best things..
Mum, Dad, I Love You.. And Happy Mother's Day.. May God bless our family always..

It's not as easy as you thought

A lot of people will think that those who study baking are the students that didn't get good results and lazy student.. Do u think so??

Actually study baking is not as easy as you thought.. Got a lot of methods and ingredients you need to remember and memorise as well.. If u want to have a good final product.. All the procedures you need to get it right.. You can't over mix or beat and can't under beat also.. You need to have skill.. Where you can get your skill?? Depend on your experience and go through a lot of experiments.. Of course, some time you will fail, but keep in mind.. Don't give up.. Try again and again.. Finally, success is yours..

Those who studying baking also need to have good command in English.. The course we study covered a wide branch of knowledge.. We have to tackle all practical and theory of bread & cakes, cookies, etc.. We also study business management, communication skill, kitchen design, safety at work, hygiene.. We need to present our product in English also.. Besides written word and practical test, we have to pass all the oral test conducted in English also..

I think this course will get me prepare for my future prospect in this field..

About Eric..

My name is Tang Sin Fuk (Eric) from BST 12/522 who is studying at MIB (Malaysian Institute of Baking) right now.. I came from a small town, Sibu in Sarawak.. I'm a guy, can be very active and sometime quiet without any reason.. I like to make friends and love sports a lot.. I'm not a guy who really like to read books actually.. but i always train myself to make it as one of my habit..

Why I want to study baking and why I choose MIB?? A lot of my friends were very surprise that i have chosen this course.. Although i don't have any baking experience before I came to MIB.. I wish to have my own bakery and cafe since I'm studying in form 3.. but only a few friends know about it.. Maybe, it is the great interest in baking that pushed me along.. I think my hardworking and enthusiasm in baking will help me to achieve my goal in future.. Gambateh.. :D